In either case as soon as we decide to regard this regarding the brighter good part then then there is certainly nevertheless some a cure for this generation. if 96% of men and women are dating because its a individual decision… we dearly wish that my generation will remain real to by by themselves, make right choices with regards to selecting their partners.. and for the two% who date for suitable in i am hoping my sound cloud recording and YouTube movie inspires one to make smarter choices.. I am hoping all of us figure out how to love ourselves before permitting someone else in terms of love partner within our lifeвЂ¦Well perhaps the bible says hope will not disappoint.
Aririi! 5 years and counting
The MwendasвЂ™ are only proof that every is certainly not lost because of this generation.Can i call them the remnants of the generation?Our generation XY has really normalised dating for the reason that relationship has lost its meaning.Well because of my passion with regards to love issues and continously making improvement in my personal various method, i went ahead and approached my good friends for a lot of years who’ve been an excellent motivation in my experience and lots of other folks out here..Enjoy my discussion because of the Mwendas i hope any of you scanning this will soon be significantly influenced and certainly will discover anything or even to
HOST: Hey guys welcome returning to konk and spice youtube channel, my title is kezia wamiru, we have a web log section on konk вЂnвЂ™ spice wordpress and my section is all about relationshipsвЂ¦..aaaand we have an extremely really beautiful few the whom?
MWENDAS: The Mwendas
HOST: By the real method congratulations, the length of time maybe you have dated?
MRS MWENDA: five years
MR MWENDA: Our company is within our year that is fifth now.
HOST: And countingвЂ¦ in addition this is certainly so tricky in terms of generation XY because many peeople have normalised .right that is dating?
MRS MWENDA: Yeah!
HOST: So which mountain did you?so face while prsying that one can perhaps date somebody for 5 years.
MRS MWENDA: Aaah! There’s absolutely no mountain( laughing)there is not any mountain we prayed. I do believe communication is a really thing that is key together with your family member is extremely important. If you have a problem you communicate if you find no issue you nevertheless communicate. Yes so interaction enables you to comprehend one another to pay attention to specific things and to re solve issues whenever you have got them. yaah! Correspondence is key.
HOST: fine! i am aware you dudes like study together, appropriate? like dont you guys get bored of every other if you see one another when you look at the class that is same? yaani!(laughing) I understand because folks have jsut been dating for like 90 days after which they have been done.they Are like by the real means huu msee ameniboo.. you will get?
MRS MWENDA: Yaah!
HOST: So nyinyi mnafanya aje ili mnaspice that is mkuwe relationship.
MRS MWENDA: Friendship!!you begin with being friends an individual will be buddies every thing else flows.. Ata hamtajua mkiwa ati baes, when you’re buddies every thing simply goes elevating.
MR MWENDA: if you have acommon objective, its the thing that is best.
HOST: Dudes perhaps you have heard its a goal that is common relationship.soвЂ¦
MR MWENDA: typical goal and relationship.
HOST: Thats nice.
MR MWENDA: Because people are outhere saying mimi niko 25 siwezi date mtu ako 25 ama 26i want a 3o yr old, mtu wa 30 vitu zenye anataka na wewe 25 ndiyo utoto that is unamaliza.
MR MWENDA: Mta languish (everybody laughing) therefore wacha ata tusitaje age age is anumberвЂ¦ lets say have a typical objective yeah..
HOST: Wee ooliskia wapi ati you cant date an individual who is 25 and you’re 25.. therefore whats your advice? I would like to hear away from you and also you ee..whats your advice to people.. as you understand perhaps not me many that are viewing overhere(laughing)they want to know like exactly what are the recommendations aside from like eeh friendship and having a standard objective. Mnaambia aje hawa mayengs wanawatch hawa mabuda wanawatch, people that are longing to beвЂ¦ the thing is like those romantics that are hopless whats your advice even as we are completing up..
MRS MWENDA: Aaah self awarness once you learn your self you will be aware that this person i’m able to roll with them.Or this individual is agood impact or bad influence..Before you like somebody you will need to love yourself.. you have to be saturated in love so it out that you can pour. yaah! so self awarness is key..
HOST:(LAUGHING) Guys yaani unaskia tu these folks when they’re chatting they understand what they desire in lifeвЂ¦ Thabk you so much dudes.. therefore like these ones the Mwendas they claerly show you could be with someone for 5 yearsвЂ¦si ni ukweli eee.
MRS MWENDA: Its Potential.
HOST: therefore dontgive up just know the right thing, love yourself , self awarness right? have goal that is common moreso be friends..and communicateвЂ¦ thats it.